I am still not over my birthday cause 1) I low key love attention and 2) cause I felt so so loved. My mom gave me this beautifully decorated cigar box which and the presents in it were a swiss army (which can do anything and save your life basically) and a beautiful blue crystal necklace and matching bracelet. My sister Frida wrapped everything perfectly in beautiful wrapping paper… I am actually in awe of her wrapping skills. Every year for at least 7 years we go to the same Chinese food buffet in Kingston, NY and we feast (this time I made it to 3 plates) and it’s an amazing amount of food and so satisfying. It’s one of my favorite and the most sacred traditions I have. I open presents and my family sings to me (embarrassingly in both English and Spanish). Every year my friends and I take a photo in the bathroom (again embarrassing) and it’s so crazy to look back on these photos for posterity. The friend group has changed grown smaller cause I’ve stopped being friends with some and also cause some of my dearest friends have moved away and started my life. Two of my best friends were unable to make it this time, Hali goes to RISD and lives in Providence and Olivia lives in a tent in California where she works on a farm. As I’ve grown older though, I think I’ve gotten smarter about who I choose to spend my life with and I’m very proud to be associated with the people I call best friends. They inspire me every day.
It’s my 21st birthday and we went to my neighborhood restaurant that I love and adore and feels like home and they brought me cake and sang to me and I just felt so much love for my world.
This was last night + our 1 year anniversary and I️ took him to my favorite restaurant ever + he gave me a necklace made of fairy dust and we both made toasts one with white wine and one with mango lassi and we saw a movie and after looking for a theatre w those cushy chairs that you can move up and down for months to no avail we happened to walk into one.